algorithm for non-conversation
should someone share information or
– well, while we’re on that topic . . .
– that’s nothing . . .
– here’s what you need to do . . .
– oh, really? when that happened to me . . .
– now let me tell you . . .
if no initial gambit is
if several of the previous type
have been successfully implemented
any topic on which you have strong
you will have good chance of never having
the authenticity or connection you were
avoiding in the first place
you may need to resort to
that should do it